Lady by Day Tips: Foreplay
Dream On!
Don't forget to exercise the most important erotic muscle your have: your
mind. Letting yourself fantasize throughout the day about sexy scenes and
sensual acts builds your anticipation and creativity. This is a surefire way
to make sex that much more satisfying when you finally get to indulge, whether
you have a lovemaking session with a partner or a solo session with the star
of your fantasies!
Spice It Up
Don't believe in the power of aphrodisiacs? Does the thought of oysters upping
libido or chocolate being a substitute for sex make you want to laugh? Then
perhaps you should try the more down-to-earth effects of everyday spices!
Garlic is known for its circulation-boosting properties, so try adding some
to your next meal to increase blood flow to special places. Not in the mood
for garlic? Try ginger. It's a great taste enhancer (a very important one
of your five senses) and causes a warm, tingly sensation when ingested, giving
you a head start on other warm, tingly feelings!
31 Flavors
There are so many delectable flavors of
lubricant
and
edible
body products now available, why settle for just one? Some night when
you want to give your lover a special treat, dab different flavors of
lubricant
strategically over your different erogenous zones and have your sweetie taste
your skin to discover them one by one. It will be a delicious adventure for
both of you!
Pre-Play Foreplay
Why wait to be in your partner's arms to initiate a sexual romp? Let the foreplay
begin on your drive home. Call your lover and start telling a hot story filled
with sensual and sexy details about how you felt all day thinking about having
a passionate, steamy encounter with them. Above all, express that you can
hardly wait to see and touch them. It will get your partner excited before
you ever lay eyes on them. Inquire about the clothing your partner is wearing;
you might even ask for all clothing to be removed by the time you get home!
After all, what are cell phones for, if not to initiate important appointments?
Use yours to indulge in some pre-foreplay and you'll make a sexy night together
last even longer.
Shower Your Senses
Showering before sex doesn't just get you clean; it prepares your body for
ecstasy. Showering warms and loosens muscles (great for flexibility), clears
your nasal passages, thereby enhancing your sense of smell (think pheromones),
and increases your circulation so that your body is more receptive to touch.
(Good blood flow is a key to sexual responsiveness.) Want to make your pre-sex
shower even more satisfying? Make it part of foreplay. Invite your partner
to bathe with you and rub one another down with a sensual
bath
oil or aromatic bath gel.
Make Foreplay a Breeze
Believe it or not, even air can be used as an erotic tool--a particularly
enticing one during hot summer nights. Have your lover strip down to their
birthday suit and lie flat on the bed with their eyes closed. (You might even
want to blindfold them.) Then, use your breath or a small, handheld fan to
blow on them gently, moving from erogenous zone to erogenous zone. Soon enough,
they're likely to be begging for your touch.
Savor Sweet Sensations
Consider the erotic possibilities of produce. Fruit is delicious and sensual,
whether you and your partner share an erotic snack, place a morsel in your
mouths to sweeten a kiss, or lightly rub juicy pieces over one another’s bodies
to lick off. Try feeding your lover a succulent strawberry or a ripe piece
of mango at the end of a romantic dinner and see where it leads!
Undressed and Impressed
Try a new twist on an old favorite: Perform a unique striptease dance for
your lover. First, impose a strict look-but-don’t-touch rule. (Using
fur-lined
handcuffs or other
wrist restraints on your partner will help.) Then, as you disrobe, erotically
remove articles of clothing from them, as well. Do this until you are both
naked and ready for more action. You may or may not want to remove their restraints!
Mix Up Your Massages
Massage is a wonderful, intimate way to be romantic with your partner, but
even massages can become routine. So mix it up! One time touch your partner
using only soft, feather-light strokes over every inch of their body. Another
time, use different, oiled parts of your body - like your forearms, chest,
and thighs - to caress and rub your partner. You can even make massage a
game, choosing the strokes and body parts, and different
massage
oils.
Get in the Zone
First, ask your partner to pick a favorite non-genital erogenous zone on their
body (nape of neck, back of knee, earlobes, hands, tummy, etc.). Then, for
the next 24 hours, lavish special attention on that one spot or zone. Try
caressing it, kissing it, blowing on it, rubbing ice on it - get creative!
The goal is to see just how heated up you can make each other throughout the
day. This will lead to some really intense sex by evening.
Sexy Scavenger Hunt
On your next big date night with your partner, tantalize them with a playful
adult scavenger hunt! Hide your sex toys and other racy treats around the
house and give your lover clues on where to find them. To add some fun to
the game, you might want to shed a piece of clothing each time they find something
you’ve hidden. But let them know they can’t get their real prize until they’ve
found the very last one. As for what that prize is, we'll leave that to your
imagination!
Daring Strip Poker
If you’re in a frisky mood, try playing a game of strip poker (or rummy or
gin) with your partner. When you’ve both lost all of your clothes, dare each
other to do silly tricks in the buff. For instance, you could dare your naked
partner to do a headstand, cartwheel or jumping jacks, or attempt to give
you an erotic belly or hula dance. You’re both sure to have a good laugh.
Laughing with each other while naked can help boost your body confidence and
is a great erotic mood enhancer. Try getting naked together with one of these
fabulous games:
X-Rated
P oker or
Take
It Off.
X Marks the Spot
The next time you and your lover are together, each take a piece of paper
and draw a picture or outline of your body on it (even if it’s a stick figure!).
Then, mark an X on every spot you want your lover to touch, lick or kiss.
When you’re both done, trade papers. Now you have an erotic treasure map that
you can use to explore your partner’s body.
Heighten Your Senses
Expanding the range of sensations that you’re open to can really heighten
what you experience during sex. One way you and your partner can experiment
with this idea is by taking turns
blindfolding
one another and having each other taste a number of different foods. Choose
a range of foods that are very different. Some should be salty, some should
be sweet and some should even be bitter. Tasting one food after another without
knowing what to expect will make each flavor more intense. If you and your
partner like this experience, you can also try it using different scents (like
peppermint, lemon and floral scents) or sounds (from beating drums to the
sound of your breath in their ear).
Be Daring and Delicious
Surprise your lover by placing a drop of
flavored
oil, gel or
nipple
balm somewhere on your body that you know your lover will lick during
foreplay. Once the action starts, watch your lover’s face as they taste this
unexpected treat. Chances are, they’ll soon be searching your body for more!
Erotic Produce
Fruit is delicious and sensual, whether sharing an erotic snack, rubbing it
lightly over your lover's body or licking the juice off of select body parts.
Try freezing some grapes and using them like an ice cube (just be sure not
to choke on them!).
Chill 'em Out
Run an ice cube over your lover's body while it melts before sex! They'll
get the chills, and then you can warm them up.
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