Lady by Day Tips: Toys
Feel the Vibration
You know best what feels good to you, right? Next time you're in an amorous
situation with your lover, try introducing a
vibrating
erection ring into your love play. Not only will you get the added intimate
stimulation that most women need to climax, men will feel the good vibrations,
as well!
Sexier Safer Sex
Having safer sex may not always seem the most satisfying way to go (albeit
the smartest!), but here's a tip to make it a bit more enticing for any man.
Before putting on a
condom,
place a drop or two of lubricant (not too much!) in the condom's tip. The
added friction it creates during intercourse will stimulate the sensitive
tip of the penis and add to his pleasure.
Clearly Sensual
If you've never experimented with
glass
or
acrylic
toys, give them a whirl. Both may be heated (hot water is best) or chilled
(cold water or the fridge) for a unique feel; just be sure to test the temperature
on your wrist before using a toy on yourself or a lover. Acrylic and glass
make great sensual props, as they are nonporous, easy to clean, and a cinch
to maintain. They even look elegant! Just remember, they're not unbreakable
and should always be used with a water-based lubricant, never silicone. Try
something different and experience completely new sensations!
A Little Lift
Want to take fellatio to the next level? Add props to oral sex. For example,
try using a
slimline
vibrator during your next oral adventure by placing it behind your lover's
testicles and giving them a little lift. The vibration and position of the
vibe will give your lover a whole new sensation while you perform oral sex.
You can also use the vibrator in this position to add light pressure to the
perineum, which externally stimulates the prostate--a technique that could
really send the amorous action to new heights.
Discover Silicone
Silicone isn't just the choice of starlets anymore! This highly versatile
material also makes sex toys feel velvety and gives
lubricant
a super slickness, as well as super staying power in the water. Premium silicone
is hypoallergenic and allows you to share toys with your lover--as long as
you thoroughly wash the toy before changing users, of course!
Non-vibrating
toys may be sterilized by boiling or bleaching for the ultimate clean.
Keep in mind that you should never use a silicone lubricant with a silicone
toy, because it will destroy the toy; always use a water-based lubricant with
silicone toys!
Different Strokes
Men:
Masturbation
sleeves aren't just for solo pursuits. Have a partner get involved in
your self-pleasuring! To start off, let your lover use your favorite lubricant
to ready the sleeve for your use and slowly slip the sleeve on you. Then guide
your lover as to the strokes that create the best sensations by placing your
hand over your lover’s hand or murmuring encouragement when a rhythm is working.
That way, your lover’s technique is perfected and you receive an amazing orgasm.
Don't forget to show your appreciation!
Glow with Passion
This tip will literally lead your lover right where you want them to be! Luminesse
is a stylish French dildo outfitted with silicone rings that glow in the dark.
Just set it under a lamp for a while, then turn off the lights and watch it
shine. Some special night, after dark, try creating a glowing path to your
bedroom door by placing Luminesse’s rings throughout your house. Following
each one, your partner will get closer and closer to you until--surprise!--you
are finally visible lying in the bed holding Luminesse’s phosphorescent shaft.
Once your partner brings you all the rings, let the games begin. Both of you
can place the rings on the shaft, using Luminesse as part of your love play.
We predict you'll be glowing with passion all night long.
Pearl Play
Whether or not you ever wear them, a string of pearls can make a wonderful
accessory when drawn slowly along an erogenous zone. The pearls themselves
are silky smooth, yet the bumps create a tantalizing texture that feels wonderful
when brushed up against your most sensitive areas.
Share the Pleasure
Even if you have a fabulous sex life, there’s always room for some extra spice.
Mix it up with a new sex toy you can share.
G-Spot
vibes are great for stimulating her G-Spot or his prostate during oral
play, creating a truly unique sensation you both will love. Or try the perfect
hands-free couple’s toy, a
vibrating
erection ring that make his erection stronger and last longer while providing
clitoral stimulation for her - a great way to share and intensify the pleasure
for both partners during intercourse.
Add Pleasure with Pillows
Pillows aren't only for sleeping on! They can also be a great help in achieving
different sexual positions with less strain and increased pleasure. Experiment
with your pillows. You can use them for support, cushioning or elevation of
certain body parts during intercourse. You can even take this technique to
the next level by using a pillow especially designed to enhance sexual positions,
like the
Liberator
Wedge.
Make Edible Art
Want to really express your erotic side? Paint your lover’s naked body using
body
frosting or even some chocolate syrup. Whether you use a soft brush or
your fingers, your partner will love the sensations you create while making
your masterpiece. And they’ll love it even more when you devour your delicious
creation!
Sexy Special Deliveries
Nowadays you don’t have to go into an adult video store to rent an erotic
video or DVD; you can
buy
or even
rent them discreetly
online. So, if you’ve never watched porn with your lover, this might be the
perfect excuse to give it a try. It’s easy to find something you’ll both like
when you shop online, because the movies are usually divided into categories
- such as newlyweds, anal sex, group sex, redheads, foot fetish, detectives,
wrestling or virtual sex. There are hundreds of categories, so experiment
until you find the genre that works best for you.
Be a Smooth Operator
Add a silk or satin scarf to your bedside collection to enhance your love
play. Both sensual and versatile, a scarf can be used as a blindfold, tied
to gently bind your partner’s hands or manipulated to add new sensations to
foreplay. For instance, run the scarf slowly along your partner’s body, grazing
their nipples, belly and inner thighs. The cool, slick material will feel
amazing on their bare skin.
Tickle Their Fancy
Use a
feather
to tickle and tease every inch of your lover’s body. A big, fluffy plume works
best. Simply run it lightly over your partner’s skin and watch ‘em squirm.
By the time you’re done, every inch of their body will be tingling. So simple,
yet so erotic!
Erotic Exposure
Smile, your naughty bits are on camera! Make an erotic video or digital photo
series staring your sexy, seductive self. Imagine how delighted your partner
would be if you were to make a special little show for their eyes only. Send
it with them on a trip or give it to them as a preview of things to come.
Don’t even say what it is - just make sure you tell them to watch it alone!
Guess the Toy!
Take out all of your sex toys, lay back, and close your eyes. Then, have your
partner use different toys on you one by one, and try to guess which toy he
or she is using. Don't have a lot of sex toys? Use one that comes with a
variety
of attachments.
Beyond the Bed!
Utilize different pieces of furniture to create different lovemaking experiences.
Not only does getting out of bed provide instant variety, but there are other
advantages as well. For example, a piano bench or weight bench can be straddled
easily, one can kneel while the other lies on it. Use your imagination!
More Textures
Here is another way to try playing with textures: Instead of rubbing your
partner's body with things like fur and silk, rub through them! What you do
is keep the material still against your partner's body, and move your hand
over it. If you do it this way, you can create all sorts of unique sensations
using even unusual items such as Saran Wrap.
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